Bob Fonda Still Going Strong After Two Decades of Substituting
It seems everyone knows, or at least has heard, of the famous Bob Fonda. The substitute teacher’s ubiquitous presence in the school district and in the community for the past two decades has made experiencing one of his classes a rite of passage among many students.
So what is it that’s so special about Fonda? It’s Fonda’s attitude and approach to interacting with students that makes being in one of his classes a special experience.
Though Fonda has jokingly informed students he is 29 years old, he grew up here in the Bay Area during the Great Depression. Born in Oakland in the 1920’s, Fonda was a studious child. He was taught to read and write by the age of four, and would constantly help his classmates when in grade school.
“I would help my neighbors, and helping my neighbors meant doing their homework for them,” Fonda said. “That would really irritate teachers, and I had about half a dozen report cards during elementary school…in which the teacher wrote something like ‘Robert’s work is good but he really is a pest with his neighbors.’ I got it in writing.”
Fonda attended San Jose High School and graduated in 1943. That same year, following a close cousin, he enlisted in the Coast Guard, during the height of World War II.
“[I spent] three undistinguished years in the service.” Fonda said. “As somebody said, ‘They wouldn’t let me in until they knew they were winning,’ so that I couldn’t do any damage.”
After exiting the military, Fonda briefly attended the U.S. Coast Guard Academy, before leaving to go to San Jose State University for pre-engineering. Next he attended Stanford for both his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in engineering, finishing his schooling in 1951.
As Fonda matured, he developed an adventure-seeking attitude that’s taken him all across the globe. He’s worked a remarkable number of jobs in even more remarkable places —a civil engineer, park ranger, radio technician and translator in addition to substitute teaching. While on business, he’s visited the USSR and many Eastern Bloc countries: former communist states in Eastern Europe that were allied with the Soviet Union. He was also one of the first Americans in Shanghai, China, arriving in 1979 when the country had just been opened up to Western trade. He spent several years living in Thailand and Japan, where he met his wife, with whom he currently lives here in Los Altos.
“We met in 1953 but we didn’t marry until 1978,” Fonda said. “I was 52 and a half to the exact day we married. As somebody said, why didn’t Bob get married sooner… ‘Of course I had to get somebody outside the country to marry me because they didn’t know me, they didn’t know what they were getting into.’”
Over the course of his travels and studies, Fonda has grown competent in nine languages: English, Japanese, Russian, French, Spanish, Chinese, Italian, Turkish and Indonesian.
But no matter where he’s been or what language he’s been speaking, Fonda has always found something to appreciate in what he was doing.
“Every job that I’ve had I’ve made to enjoy and every job that I got after that I enjoyed even more,” Fonda said. “So I’m very lucky – maybe there hasn’t been anything wrong with [them] but I was fortunate to have that.”
Here in Los Altos, Fonda continues to stay active and pursue his passions, whether he’s playing the harp, seeking out extra knowledge at the local community college or substitute teaching.
Fonda first took on substituting at the advice of his brother, who is a teacher. Initially he was unsure if it would be right for him, but his first class at Berryessa High School in 1994 was a success. He quickly grew to love his job, drawing on his vast wealth of experience and knowledge. Though he had never been a teacher before, the position came naturally.
“I’ve probably almost been a teacher in all the jobs I’ve had,” Fonda said.
Fonda’s energy and drive for purpose originates in his world view. As a Biblical Christian, he dedicates himself to adhering to the tenet of “love thy neighbor as you love thyself” as well as acting as a role model for his students.
“I would like [students] to not only pick good role models, but to become good role models themselves, to their younger brothers and sisters,” he said. “All of the students have value, and I want them to reach their highest potential.”
One of of Fonda’s favorite aspects of teaching is watching students progress and mature. He recalls a particular moment a few years ago when he met one of his former students working at Fry’s Electronics. Though Fonda remembered him as a troublesome student, the teen’s composure and manners soon made it clear he’d become a responsible young adult.
“There’s hope for a lot of people,” Fonda said. “You just have to be patient.”
For this reason he loves teaching Special Education and younger grades, as he can watch the students grow. Though he stays lively with the joy he receives from teaching, Fonda’s ultimate goal is to enlighten students with his own experiences.
“Doing this brightens me up,” he said. “I come in feeling very brightened up [with] a quick step…I feel I’m composting…recycling myself in a sense…My greatest desire is that after I have left the class, I hope and pray that students have been enriched by…my “composting”, [that it] is really helping provide good soil for them to grow and mature.”
But he also has a word of advice for those of us who are still young on the outside as well as the inside.
“Don’t grow up too fast,” Fonda said. “You grow old, and then you stay old.”
Tommy Gleason | Dec 10, 2017 at 12:17 pm
Bob was my “Big Buddy” when I was a tween… He’d seen my interest in flying and wanted to buddy up with me, and we very much enjoyed taking the Piper up for flights every now and then. We did plenty of other things together too, and I was especially happy for him when he finally got together with Reiko. She was his dream love! He is very Christian, and for a while I got into an evangelical church (before I read the Bible), and then we’d get into spirited discussions about it when I left it. I think the point of it though is that we both believed, in our own way, in a universal awareness. For him it was God and for me Infinity, and he always embodied both happiness and the sharing of it. He was taken advantage of sometimes too, but all of us who are giving are, and just hope the “taker” learns and becomes a better person for it. As such he was happiness to me, and since that part of him lives in me, Bob has never died. His name may be forgotten in a few generations, but his essential being will live on in all of us who carry it forward.
Elizabeth Munoz | Apr 8, 2017 at 9:02 am
Bob Fonda was one of my dearest friends. A true friend. When I met him in 1966, he said he was 29 years old! He helped me in my life so much. He was the best man at our wedding. I cannot speak highly enough of this man. I just recently learned of his passing. I had moved away to Rocklin a few months ago. I called his home and his voice came on the recorder. I left a message . A few days later, his wife, Reiko called me back and told me of his passing. I know he is in Heaven, which was his ultimate goal. Loved this guy a lot.
Luz Guerra | Jan 13, 2017 at 10:58 am
Bob,
Anywhere I was….. either teaching or in a rest home with my injured foot….. YOU WERE THERE!
I even met you up in Sequoia National Forest….. where you were a Park Ranger!!!! I remember that we had dinner together.
You were so spirited and so into foreign languages….. you loved speaking Spanish with me. You shared your life’s experiences…. and it was so interesting to hear about them..
You lived LIFE to the fullest. Yoou were always upbeat…and always positive.
Thank you for your out-going manner, for your classical music performances on the harp and for being my long-time friend.
I will miss seeing you around own.
Your friend…
Luz Guerra
Dorian | May 20, 2016 at 9:58 pm
At a friend’s MVWSD retirement party yesterday, we commented that we hadn’t seen him this year subbing.Sorry to hear the news! I last saw him a year ago with his harp in the classroom next door. He related many of the incredible stories above and about surviving through the depression when his family had to sell instruments, lost their home and he had to live in a camp for awhile. Bob taught us so much about life and about living it fully. For us the legacy is to be that inspiration. That’s what it means to be with us in spirit.
Annette Luongo | May 20, 2016 at 7:11 am
I loved having Bob as a substitute in my classroom! He had so many wonderful life experiences to share with the children. I’m sorry to hear of his passing. What a role model he was on how to live a good life 🙂
Mary | May 16, 2016 at 2:22 pm
Mr. Fonda, You will be so missed. Such a great person. I loved having him as a sub sooo many times! I was wondering about him a few weeks ago. My heart aches, I like most of his students thought he would never go, he was too nice and special to pass.. Rip Mr..
Chuy Alcazar | May 12, 2016 at 11:06 pm
Everytime you see him in the classroom. You know it was going to be a good time. R.I.P <3
Bobbi Behlen | May 4, 2016 at 7:44 am
Mr. Fonda was a true gentleman. I was an aide at LASD in many different SDCs. Nobody wanted to sub for our classes. Mr. F came in fearlessly and treated each student with love and dignity. His many stories of his life had me amazed! I truly loved this man’s delightful spirit and zest for life. At his age most people didn’t ride bikes around town but he did. His legacy does not end here he is on a new journey in heaven! Thank-you Mr. F for your service❤️
Veronica | May 3, 2016 at 11:20 pm
This was a wonderful story about my grandpa. I’m happy to know many people appreciate him.
Jillian | May 10, 2016 at 7:36 pm
He was your grandpa?
He was a great substitute when ever I saw him walking through the the halls at school I would always say “hey mr. fond” and he would say it too I knew him all the way back to elementary school that’s along time ago I’m a junior this year! I’m going to miss mr. Fonda he was a fewest man!!!
Robert | May 3, 2016 at 11:05 pm
Thank You
Rest in Peace my Dad
Robert Fonda son
Mitch K | Apr 28, 2016 at 1:45 pm
RIP Mr. Fonda
Marty | Apr 26, 2016 at 7:40 am
This article is written beautifully. Kudos to the author (who?)
Bob passed away in April 2016 and after striking gold in finding this article I forwarded it to some surviving kin: second cousins.
Since this article is a couple of years old, I hope the author found a career in this field. Thanks, Marty Mathews, San Jose